Tuesday, September 1, 2009

For me hapiness would lie in lil lil things......

Happiness lies in lil lil things like.....

Dancing in the rain....someone to understand when im in pain....relationship without a stain....chocolates everywhere....flowers to stare....shoulders to spare....an heart that wud care...smiles that shower....compliments that endevour...n love forever!!!
Im done with the rhyming and the others in random...
playing peek-a-boo in office....walking near the sea shore holding hands with loved one....candle light dinner....mini surprises now and then....get well soon card...KFC....100 kids around....watching animated movies....cooking together....being around with people....bed coffee....
But tats not it....
life isnt jus abt taking..........its abt giving too......
If u expect these....one should be open to give in twice....because real happiness lies in keeping others happy...

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Appearance Bug Strikes Again...

I was born and the first words outta my uncles mouth was "she looks like a milk sweet!"...it started then and hasn't stopped till date. In my early school days I was addressed as "The joker of my class"....Back home my dad called me a "Tomboy"....Well he used to always compare me with this so called "Goody Gal"...who wore salwar kameez and sang the lords slokas...the only difference between us was that ...I sang the same wearing jean and T- shirt...and ended up listening to moral lessons from my dad for the same.

This appearance bug has caught me umpteen times....

I'm thin tall, I have a chirpy smile on my face all the time and scream a "Hi", to anyone who passes by me. I am just being friendly and its definitely not a sign of hanging an "Oh Yeah! I am the best and everyone look at me pleaseeeeee"....

Comments I heard as I grew up....

1) My chemistry mam once said "Aishwarya, I know you can get pizza to your doorstep anytime, but don't act smart....you might end up upsetting your stomach before your board exams."

Her assumption based on my casual nature, was that, Im some stinking rich gal who doesnt care a damn about things around.

2) My physics mam once said "Aishwarya, you can have confidence but not overconfidence, that wont take you far in your boards."

Her assumption based on my playful nature, was that, Im this happy go lucky gal who would get away with anything.

3) My college classmates once said "You are different from us"

Their assumtion based on my broad mindedness, was that, I didnt fit in the category of the goody gals.

4) My dance school trainer once said "You act too much"

His assumtion based on my enthusiastic nature, was that, I overact inorder to grab peoples attention.

5) My cousin once said "Aishwarya, you are thin, tall and fair blessed with all the ingredients an Indian girl would need and Im sure this wud take you places"
Her assumption based on my skin tone and flat tummy, was that, with a shade of beach wood and a thin figure I would have people admire anything I did.
Gosh how wrong she was.....Only if she were in my shoes, would she have known.


The list goes on..... But you know what....I just dont care....I am really happy for who I am today and I definitely have to thank all these people as they have reassured me of being me and helped me carve a niche for myself and not allow me to lose my identity for anything and anyone.

No one better than ones inner conscience can judge oneself. And for me, I truly believe that I am definitely not a person that all these people have assumed.

1) I am no rich gal who flaunts branded clothes, I pick the cheapest yet the best from the roadside.
2) I am no overconfident kid, I just potrayed a relaxed look on my face when everyone around me had an exam fear.
3) I am no different person from my classmates, instead I am a person of difference.
4) I am no attention grabber, I am just an hyperactive kiddo.
5) I am no charmer, I own an unique Attitude - by being MYSELF!

NEVER be an APPEARANCE BUG for anyone, instead be patient to appreciate the beautiful butterfly that immerges from a caterpillar. - By Aishwarya Rajan Babu



Monday, September 8, 2008

10 Things I Hate About My Parents!

1) I hate it when you care for me


2) I hate it when you look after me


3) I hate it when you get worried about me


4) I hate it when you guide me


5) I hate it when you support me


6) I hate it when you correct me


7) I hate it when you teach me


8) I hate it when you console me


9) I hate it when you sacrifice for me


10)I hate the fact that you have done so much for me as this birth isn't enough to give back all the selfless love you have showered on me....